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Ombak.....

2012-01-09T12:53:00.003+08:00

I'm not so into Malaysian Movie, bukan apa just that it's always turn out dissapointed.. My last Malaysian Movie was KL Gangster, its just becos i was drag by my two son.. so sempat la tinguk, my rating to that movie 6/10.. cos sampai sekarang i can't remember apa sudah jalan cerita dia.. :D.. Yesterday i subscribed "Ombak Rindu", because of friends' review and heard all over it on FB.. i bought it in the afternoon, since yesterday Sunday.. so mau chillax kunun2 with the family... at 3 i called everybody including my helper (my Indonesian maid) to sit together in front of the tv.. "tinguk movie kita" i said... so on la "Ombak Rindu" ni... i wasn't expect this movie so much, lantak ja la.. sampai half ja ... habis my tears all over my face... habisla siap kena ejek my kids n hubby lagi.. haha.. everybody seems so enjoyed with that movie.. memang best.. I'm agreed with you all who already watch this... best.. best... wanted 2 watch it again tonight.. :D

2011-12-20T11:14:00.002+08:00

5 more days to celebrate Baby Jesus arrival.. Have a Blessed Christmas Everyone... Cheerss...

Baby Micah

2011-12-20T10:59:00.001+08:00

watch this... till now Baby Micah still have the same style of laughing... so cute...

Wordless Wednesday

2011-11-23T18:34:00.000+08:00

Movies..

2011-11-15T19:20:00.004+08:00

After this two unforgettable sensational movies, i'm looking forward to these... can't wait...

and

Keputusan UPSR 2011

2011-11-15T10:35:00.004+08:00

Diumumkan oleh Portal Maklumat Pendidikan bahawa Keputusan UPSR jatuh pada 17hb November, 2011.. sebagai seorang ibu, tipu kalau tidak nervous kan..?? Mark pada hari tersebut akan menyambut Hari Kelahiran yang ke 12 tahun .... so hopefully the UPSR result will be his best gift ever.. Amen.. anyway in advance Mark, mom loves to wish you a very Happy Birthday and Good Luck Dear... May all your hardworkings will give you the best outcome .. Mom & Dad always luv all ..

Mark's 2010 birthday

Diet challenge

2011-11-14T13:05:00.004+08:00

it's still continuing.. and i managed to lose only a kg.. so now i'm 55 kg.. i feel a bit lighter after took the Fujita Lactose by Elken and 4Life Nutrastart.. after gave birth to my 3Ms 8 years ago, my weight was only 48kgs.. and now, makin tua makin pula berat.. so still dieting la... so just hoping that you guys can give me a help about these dieting thingy... i need helpppp.... :D

Buzy Beeezz..

2011-11-14T12:34:00.004+08:00

hop.. blog hop... jus love to read friend's blog or unknown bloggers to get an idea to write.. but at the same time i feel that i'm trying to buzy bodying other business.. :D, but well that's what blogging all about right.... anyway, i just read about in my ribbon shoes & Aishah's blog.. and i found that there are very strong girl and their determination made us realised that life is short and live life the fullest while you can .. and of course everything is about family.. no one can replaced them from us .. As a working mom, to handle 3 children are out of control if there's no motivation from your other half.. My hubby is my great motivator, he always reminded me that children at their age now are always hoping for an attention from us.. they will do anything to get attention from us, but luckily my two son not the rebellious type.. answering me back is a common but in a controlled way.. only that my little daughter is such a baby.. she always be my tail :P.. to her, her mom is her idol.. she will imitating whatever i did, specially in terms of ladies' accesories .. some of my friends call her "mel kecik" hehe.. but most of all she's a daddy's girl .. and i know all my children loves their parents so much.. And love you all too my lovely 3Ms..

holiday

2011-11-06T14:03:00.005+08:00

Happy Hari Raya Aidil Adha to all muslims out there..

For me.. this holiday is for my resting time.. yeahhh... after such a busiest day yesterday registered for my Melvin & Mark's school for 2012, with such a crowd made me feels so breathless.. haha.. but then it's happen to be well organised.. only that i couldn't stand that crowds and all in a hurry.. hmmm.. kurang lagi 1 kg terlari sana sini.. hehe.. then i went for a dart tournament to see all my friends who took part that time.. it was ok and such supportive and sporting crowds .. after that with my ladies friend to had a coffee break cum karaoke-ing session at KRK at 5 whatt... heee.. then back to the dart tourney.. My brother just came back from Shah Alam for his 2 weeks holiday and again had my time with them at KRK just to have fun and enjoy till 2 in a morning...what a long day...

So today is my quality time with my heroes and heroin and napping time ... so Happy Holidays everyone...

Closed!!!

2011-11-01T15:04:00.003+08:00

for you guys out there.. no more Facebook account for me ... it's temporarily closed. So many unexplain caused why i close my accounts. I just want to concentrate at my blog, it's speak more freely and happier.. When I am ready, i will reopen my FB acct same as i did it before to my blog ... By the way, to bloggers friend.. mind if you all can give me ideas and comments towards my blog so i can improve and write more.. Enjoy and happy reading..

7-Days Diet Challenge

2011-10-31T16:20:00.003+08:00

hmmm the most extreme things to do is to lose weight... this 7-days challenge i created by myself just to encourage n give me more self esteem... i started last two days with my weight at 56 kg at that time. Last nite i took detox-trim to cleanse my colon and at the same time to enhance my metabolism.. cuba-cubalah kalau berjaya.. hehe..

Day 1

Breakfast - Nutrastart 4Life Chocolate Flavour + Nescafe

Lunch - A glass of Low-Fat Yoghurt + 2 pieces Oatmeal Biscuit + 1 pc popia (unacceptable right?)

Afterwork: Badminton + Playing with my children

Dinner: Mangoes

Supper: A glass of nescafe & a piece of Oatmeal Biscuit..

Day 2

Breakfast - Nutrastart 4Life Chocolate Flavour + Nescafe + Egg Sandwich

Lunch - A glass of Nescafe + 2 pieces of dimsum (:P)

Afterwork: Groceries shopping so no exercises today

Dinner: A bowl of Terung Bakar & Sawi Masak Sos.. but without nasi.. enufff... :(

Day 3

Breakfast - Nescafe + Assam Laksa (aduiiii rusak diet...!!!)

Lunch - Not taken yet ... (alamak.. thinking of kupi2 oredy...)

Dinner - Plan to take my Nutrastart 4Life Chocolate Flavour..

will tell u about my progress of dieting soon k... Have a nice day!!!

Simple Back Pain Relief

2011-10-24T22:04:00.003+08:00

1. Hip Rolls

2. Waist Twist

3. Knee Bends

Camwhoring with Mdm B8..

2011-10-23T11:33:00.003+08:00

Last friday, sempat camwhoring with Madam Beth masa lepak-lepak dekat club yang happening dekat keningau ni... so enjoy bila jumpa teman-teman baru & lama.. kalau berkesempatan will go there again soon.. thank u so much Mdm B8.. u rock gurll..

Happy Birthtday Lily..

2011-10-20T08:11:00.003+08:00

sob.. sob.. sob.. watch this..

Lily Get A Surprise Birthday Gift..

Gadgets & Ibu Bapa

2011-10-19T15:24:00.010+08:00

Apa kaitan ni? Hehe, actually since my last post.. banyak cerita mengenai hal-hal ini with friends.. bukan mengumpat just jadi tajuk utama bila bercerita... (mengumpat kaitu?) well, Keningau makin maju sekarang ni so timbul la cerita yang bermacam-macam.. mungkin sebab alat elektronik kita yang semakin canggih, pc, notebook, ipad, iphone.. apa ke benda? FACEBOOK!!!! semua berlumba-lumba untuk menampilkan diri masing-masing.. mahu menunjukkan kehebatan masing-masing.. well itu hak masing2 la kan.. mau tunjukkan apa sebab mampu juga kan.. tapi disamping itu juga ada yg tidak berkemampuan tu yang berkobar-kobar cuba mendapatkan apa yang ada pada orang lain itu sanggup berbuat apa saja untuk mencapai keinginan masing-masing, kalau yang berfikiran positif ok tapi kalau yang tidak???... sebab itulah jenayah semakin meningkat terutama di kalangan orang-orang muda sekarang... fuhhh... sakit jantung ja tidak??!! Semua berkaitan kan.. Sedih pula melihat bila kita bergembira tapi ada yang bekerja bertungkus lumus untuk mendapatkan rezeki... aduiiii... sendiri pernah juga rasa susah masa kecil-kecil dulu kan, tapi masih boleh mengawal perasaan... sedar sendiri mengikut kemampuan keluarga tapi sekarang budak-budak lebih mendesak...!!!! adakah salah ibu bapa mendidik?? Ibu bapa sekarang lebih kepada diplomasi, kalau dulu-dulu lebih tegas siap tali pinggang di tangan lagi tu kalau lambat balik rumah hehe.. tapi still kita menghormati orang tua kita sehingga la ke hari ini.. Semua ibubapa yang pastinya mahu anak-anaknya berjaya kan.. adakah urang tua yang mahu anaknya gagal ahhh?? impossible right?? So sebagai parents hubby n me pun mengharap sedemikian dengan anak-anak.. Risau juga bila bermacam-macam gadgets timbul di pasaran sekarang... aduiiii... kawan lain ada, anak pun mahu... bukan tidak mahu beli cuma kita cuba mengawal dan mahu mendisiplinkan anak untuk lebih tumpukan pelajaran... itulah impian kami, tapi dengan explaination yang panjang lebar untuk anak-anak harap-harap mereka fahamla... :P.. Entahlah, adakah tindakan kami ni betul atau tidak, please comment...

Love Your Pet

2011-03-08T22:06:00.003+08:00

Same as human, animals also needed love, tender and care. Only few of us knew there was an organisation that prevent animals from cruelty, hunger and safer place to stay. So guys, start googling to find more about it... There is 5 guidelines to welfare animal ...

Freedom from thirst and hunger - by ready access to fresh water and a diet to maintain full health and vigour.
Freedom from discomfort - by providing an appropriate environment including shelter and a comfortable resting area.
Freedom from pain, injury, and disease - by prevention or rapid diagnosis and treatment.
Freedom to express normal behavior - by providing sufficient space, proper facilities and company of the animal's own kind.
Freedom from fear and distress - by ensuring conditions and treatment which avoid mental suffering.

In Bahasa :-

Bebas daripada lapar dan dahaga
Bebas daripada ketidakselesaan, kehangatan dan fizikal
Bebas dari kesakitan, kecederaan dan penyakit
Bebas dari keresahan
Bebas mempamerkan perilaku

...Me after 2 years gone

2011-03-08T12:42:00.004+08:00

One Year Gone..

2010-12-05T15:14:00.003+08:00

wow... one year had passed.. i haven't blogging since last year.. time flies so fast huhh..

there's a lot of thing that i've learned from a year back..

1st - u are a year older, but always think positively..

2ndly - the more aquantainces u knew.. the more experience u got from them..

3rdly - more loves i got from my loved one.. i'm in love ...

4thly - works loaded..

5thly - health & fitness concious

6thly - children's affair

7thly - to live every second the fullest..

last but not least a X'mas n new year are coming.. there's a lot more to come..

Cheers Everybody... :)

Ho ho ho...

2009-12-03T19:36:00.002+08:00

yeahh.. yeah.. x'mas is around the corner.. me so happyyyy... bcos at last i can take my leave peacefully.... (harap-harap la)..

Ten Tips To Help You Manage Your Time

2009-08-03T15:15:00.004+08:00

courtesy by Edwin C. Bliss

best baca tips ni.. i forwarded it to all of u.. manatau membantu.. For me, i found it most helpful.. enjoy reading...

1. Plan - Need to plan what u want to do for the day. Start each day with making a general schedule accordingly.
2. Concentrate - Basically, concentration is the principle of time management.
3. Take Breaks - Works like a machine (Kit Kat adverts). Without taking a break after work for a long periods is not effective use of time. Take a few minutes to something physically such as exercises, walking around the office, changing sitting position to a standing position for a while. Its provide a relief.
4. Avoid clutter - Take time before leaving your office in the afternoon to reorganize your desk so that you gets the next day off to a good start.
5. Don't Be a Perfectionist
6. Don't Be Afraid to Say No - Every request from a friend or anybody else that does not contribute to your goal, learn to decline tactfully but firmly. Many people who worry about offending others wind up living according to other people's priorities.
7. Don't Procrastinate - Start each day by doing the most unpleasant thing on your schedule.. confrontation with your fellow worker, overdue apology.. most of these are annoying chores you have to tackle.. ( paling susah ni.. but have to do it tho..) Be tough with yourself and you'll get a priceless new habit.
8. Apply Radical Surgery - Divert boring activities - Go straight to your real goal.. Cut the boring activities off, once and for all.
9. Delegate - Delegate the challenging and rewarding tasks.
10. Don't be Workaholic - Don't let work interfere with the really importants in life such as family and friends. Symptoms of work addiction include refusal to take a vacation, inability to put the office out of your mind on weekends, a bulging briefcase, and a wife and your kids is practically a stranger. Ask yourself where you put your family in your list of priorities.

Quotation from anonymous philospopher:

Yesterday is a canceled check.
Tomorrow is a promissory note.
Today is ready cash. Use it!

ehemmmm...

2009-06-15T10:37:00.006+08:00

Officially OFF..

2009-04-28T09:09:00.003+08:00

For u blogger out there, because of time frame and out of ideas.. i'm officially off from blogging from today onwards.. will meeting up u guys again when i am ready to blog again ... For the time being, I don't want to close down my blog.. jus for ur bloghopping purpose ... chaooo and thanks for being loyal reader to my blog k.. thank u so much..

How Well You Knew Your Husband

2009-04-28T08:32:00.003+08:00

Interesting tag from AnnieMing.. i'll try answer it all kio.. To Koko so sorry la if i've answered it wrongly.. It's just for fun k.. And to those who like to try this tag (specially a wife), i'm tagging u.. Try it, it's fun.. you'll smiling it by yourself..

1. He’s sitting in front of the TV, what is on the screen?
News for sure, forums, footballs and sometime movies.. But now, he's sitting more in front of his laptop..

2. You’re out to eat; what kind of dressing does he get on his salad?
Salad?? Hinava boleh la, tapun2..

3. What’s one food he doesn’t like?
Peria

4. You go out to eat and have a drink. What does he order?
Nescafe kurang manis & kon lou men, mi goreng basah or nasi lemak

5. Where did he go to high school?
SM Jitra Kedah & SM Sultan Abd. Aziz Shah Selangor

6. What size shoes does he wear?
5 and sometimes 6

7. If he was to collect anything, what would it be?
Any kind of tools from the hardware shop

8. What is his favorite type of sandwich?
Bread with butter only

9. What would this person eat every day if he could?
Itik & Pork hehehe.. tapi control ni..

10. What is his favorite cereal?
Nothing in particular

11. What would he never wear?
Boxer

12. What is his favorite sports team?
Semua yang selalu menang hehehe..

13. Who did he vote for?
Vote..???

14. Who is his best friend?
Mr. Janting, all his darters friend and of course me..

15. What is something you do that he wishes you wouldn’t do?
not thinking out of the box..

16. What is his heritage?
Pure Dusun

17. What is his favorite colour?
Black & White & sometimes green

18. What is his habit?
Drinking nescafe more than 4 times a day and it's a must..

19. What is he proud of?
Being a farmer, being himself and being a husband and the father to our kids..

20. Lastly, do you think he will read this?
Maybe.. or maybe not..

Hari Ini...

2009-04-21T16:16:00.002+08:00

bestnya hari ini, tugas-tugas semakin mencabar dijalankan dengan jayanya.. Sempat bertemu dengan TheFarmer semasa di Kantin SPTSebrang tadi.. rindu pula rasanya mau minum berdua2an tapi belum berkesempatan.. apa2 pun hari ini 5 tempat sasaran telahpun dilawati.. nampaknya setakat ni semuanya di tahap yang memuaskan.. anyway, thanks Mr. Enggal & Mdm. Juvita for showing me the way.. Tomorrow akan meneruskan tugas-tugas selanjutnya..

Hmmm, idea terganggu sedikit bila Marina call mamanya, minta bawa ke KFC Restaurant (newly renovated) petang.. we'll see dear.. So nampaknya, kena berundur diri pula untuk tanggungjawab seterusnya.. hehehe.. (terngiang2 di telinga Melvin, Mark & Marina membuli mamanya) hahaha.. ok hve to go now...

To My Dearest Jacob

2009-04-20T10:20:00.003+08:00

to my dearest Koko,

To you a very special person on this your birthday,
The best of everything and your wishes come true,
May you never be left alone to celebrate on this day,
To bring joy to you, for being you in so many ways,

Making this your day special is an honor that I cherish,
To make you smile, make you laugh, make you cry for joy,
Sharing with you, making memories on this your birthday,
Looking forward to celebrating many more to come with you,

Beauty and wisdom comes with the passage of time they say,
But Darling there is no one as handsome, vibrant and loving as you,
Age is irrelevant for there is no one as special to me as you are,
If only to have spent the birthdays of your past just being with you,

So to you my Darling Jacob Henry on this your birthday I give to you,
All the happiness, joy, beauty, passion, kindness, peace, spiritually,
And may these be ever so abundant in your life from now and evermore,
Most of all, I give to you with honor my undying devotion and all my love..

Happy Birthday Ko.. Hope you will success in everything you do.. My love and Joy always be with you, Amen..

arrrgghh...

2009-04-07T11:50:00.002+08:00

due to my hectic time few weeks back, i can't imagine i had left my blogs such a long time hehehe.. some of messages in my shoutmix box also i couldn't reply.. so sorry la friends... For your info, last 28th March, my maid had gone away back to her kampung (alasan dia la).. but then i heard from her friend that she's gone to Tenom to get married with her boyfriend.. alala.. kalau tau i will give her some bonus for her wedding hehehe.. and beside my maid, i have to prepare a loads of reports for our 1st conference this year.. 3 days conference in KK.. well have to do a loads of reports analysis.. adadaa (uiii urang keningau punya expression kunun ni, durang bilang la..) stressful gila.. mana ingat rumah, mana ingat kerja.. cabaran.. cabaran.. but all those had passed, now i'm back.. try to update all that had been not updated yet.. to alan and PG yang tidak jemu-jemu jenguk my blog.. thank you so much for supporting me.. and of course to my darters friend, i'll see u all when i see u k..

2009-03-16T09:42:00.001+08:00

Cuba teka mana satu saya? Guess, which one is me?

Today's Joke

2009-03-10T14:14:00.002+08:00

Pengsanla kalau dapat applicants cam ni.. hehehe

Name: Ah Boy
Age: Still young
Sex: Never. Still under age
Religion: I only have experience praying my cat who dead 2 years before
Race: I love to race, how you know?
Nationality: I don't like National, I prefer Sanyo
IC Number: 6735
Telephone number: House no telephone
Hand phone number: 3310
Address: Penang Jelutong
City: Nor Haliza?
Postcode: I never post anything
State: In my family, I am 2^nd
Country: I love to travel to Canada
Marriage status: Secret
Email Address: Hotmail
Education Background: My teacher said not bad
Working experience: Last time got sell pirated VCD
Father's name: Daddy
Father's IC: You ask him
Mother's name: Mummy
Mother's IC: You ask her
Current Salary: Depends on my daddy mood
Expected Salary: As much as you can pay
When can start work: Depends on my mood
Highest qualification: Ya, very high
Grade: Ya, very high
College/University: College
Signature: Can I use chop?

Tips to Improve Our Life

2009-03-10T10:20:00.003+08:00

An email sent to me by a friend, i forwarded it to all of u... Enjoy reading...

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it.
FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.
SIX.. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
FIFTEEN. Say "God bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson .
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.

Aku Dan Diri Mu - Dedicated this song to Mr. Jacob

2009-02-27T10:11:00.004+08:00

Clever Dalmation Riding A Bike

2009-02-27T09:25:00.000+08:00

Mimpi Kejap...

2009-02-18T13:45:00.000+08:00

BUBU

2009-02-17T21:56:00.004+08:00

maybe u all keep on wondering what the heck is Bubu right? ekekkek... Last Sunday, a cousin of my hbby side came from KK and brought us a very lil' tiny cute "English Terrier".. what can I say, just thanks so much Carol.. we had dreams to buy a little dog for a very long time already.. tapi belum terbeli2 lagi.. By the way, Bubu is very smart dog.. very young only 2 months old.. but he's (it's a male k) a very smartest dog i have ever seen.. Not a guard dog but sort of a toy dog la.. He's very cute, i tell u.. see the pic below.. mesti c Tompok jeles ni.. hehehe..

Happy Valentine's Day

2009-02-13T15:09:00.003+08:00

Everybody seems mumbling bout Valentine's Day tomorrow.. but for me, it's mean nothing and never celebrate it before.. Cos for me, loving and caring means so much for us at every hour and each second.. furthermore, hubby never believe that kind of day.. hehehe.. Just like today, with purposely asking him, "Ko, tomorrow Valentine's Day pula kan?" guess what he said, "Apa tu Valentine's day?" hahaha.. funny ni.. So, I change the topic about drinks and traffic jam, for u guys who had never been to Keningau.. Traffic jam is the serious topic nowadays... I think the District council need to solve the problem.. Jammed everywhere, luckily I walked to my office.. I already set my time, and it's clock exactly 2 minutes walk from my house.. siok kan.. And me don't know how to drive already till i kissed someone car while fetching my kids from school this afternoon.. luckily just a little smack.. nothing hurt not even my car.. but after telling my hubby (paham-paham la apa terjadi.. hehehe).. what can i say.. Just to say sorry and promised to drive more alert next time... O ya, phrase of the day.. nang buti nang, kui buti kui... (anyone please explain...).. And if i'm not mistaken it goes with a funny poems.. Mr. Greg can u finish it...?? hehehe.. Ok for those who celebrate Valentine's Day, wishing you a sweet Valentine's Day... and take care...

What I'm gonna miss about SPT Sebrang..

2009-02-07T16:18:00.003+08:00

Pemandangan yang sejuk mata memandang..

Suara-suara ternakan yang siok mau dengar

Burung Unta yang jadi tumpuan pengunjung..

Kesibukan masa-masa ada lawatan..

Teman-teman sekerja..
(sory la kawan2, gambar kamu yang lain tidak termasuk ni...
tapi kamu semua tetap kawan pejabat yang baik..)

last sekali.. tempat lepak kami.. pekena Nescafe di awal pagi..
Apa2pun, SPT Sebrang sememangnya satu tempat yang menarik..

Handphone

2009-02-03T14:21:00.003+08:00

Handphone ni banyak jasa dia sama kita buat tika ini.. Jarang sekali kita nampak orang berdiri di pondok telefon membuat panggilan, cuma ada yang berdiri di dalam pondok itu untuk mengelakkan dari panas dan juga hujan saja .. Dalam tu sambil bercakap-cakap dengan handphone pula.. Handphone pula makin lama makin canggih keluarannya.. Sudahlah canggih harganya berpatutan pula.. ehhh meleret pula saya ni..

Mau cerita pasal handphone ni, melalui cerita-cerita kawan la.. Handphone ni juga la buat seseorang tu menyeleweng atau menggatal (sorry la bahasa kasar sikit).. Bila ada bunyi dering atau bunyi sms masuk, perkara-perkara yang sering dibuat.. antaranya (sorry la ini hanya cerita rekaan dari kawan-kawan ja, kalau terasa sorryla ye, jangan marah ) :-

1. Terkejut dengan bunyi deringan terutama bila ada pasangan di sebelah, pura-pura adjust diri buat muka "cool" ni, deringan dibiar berpanjangan sampai putus, alasan panggilan dari bank.. Kalau tiada pasangan terutama di depan kawan-kawan, akan beralih arah jauh dari kawan-kawan dan senyum-senyum menyambut panggilan.. Bergayut lama-lama sambil pegang2 daun pokok bunga kalau di luar kawasan, sambil senyum-senyum...

2. Kalau dapat sms bila dekat dengan pasangan, buat muka serius sambil membalas sms konon2nya ada mesej penting dari kerja atau tugas penting.. Bila jauh dari pasangan, senyum-senyum ni depan handphone membalas sms.. hehehe..

3. Kalau dapat panggilan atau sms masa bersama dengan pasangan pada larut malam, kunun marah-marah siapa yang mengganggu malam2 buta.. Tapi bila pasangan tiada, I rindu laaa...

Hehehe, ni pengalaman cerita dari karangan kawan-kawan sekerja saja, tidak menuju kepada sesiapa .. Entah betul atau tidak, kamu sendiri nilaikannya k.. Enjoy..

Report Duty at my new office

2009-02-03T14:07:00.003+08:00

Today, i managed to go for report duty at my new office.. Briefing by my boss what shall i do with my new tasks.. Bla.bla. bla.. (panic kejap ni, responsible makin besar la).. So, I calm down myself.. (mesti bulih ni, I'm telling myself).. What I really enjoy about it is that my house are really near with the office, only 1 minute walk i guess.. So, I can go to work 5 minute to 8.. Of course the pay la $$$.. Cost of my car's fuel will decrease, cost of going to canteen will decrease too, so I hope I'll save a lot this year.. cos my hubby & I have a lots of plan to do this year.. Hope it will come true, Amen..

Keningau

2009-01-28T18:36:00.008+08:00

You want to know more about Keningau, this will help. 30 years ago, Keningau was a small cowboy town.. I remembered that time, my father once a while brought my sister and me to watch movie at the old cinema (forgot oredy the name..) but there is no cinema now here in Keningau.. Still on my mind before went back home we will met this uncle to buy his "sotong tumbuk".. woww.. very yummy one, i tell u.. (tapun-tapun).. But all the old memories has passed.. still I'm here after 37 years living with full of memories.. Sambil-sambil promo Keningau, actually my 37th birthday today.. What i got for my birthday was these.. Thanks to you my dear Jacob, Melvin, Mark & Marina.. I love you all very much...

photoshop

2009-01-26T19:39:00.008+08:00

belajar-belajar photoshop.. ni ja hasil dia.. just the basic one la... belum lagi tahap maksimum kepakaran dia... ni pun belajar dari Youtube.. hehehe, new pic to old pic version...

Gong Xi Fa Cai

2009-01-26T19:10:00.004+08:00

Since i'm mixed Indian Sino, we celebrated all occasion or festival here in Sabah.. Xmas, we partying, CNY we celebrate, Kaamatan we aramaitii, hari raya too, even deepavali also we partying.. so in short, we are multi racial family.. But for all the gatherings, we must always aware the people who around us that still sick, need a helping hand and the one who already leave us.. Sometime with enjoyment, partying and so on, we always unaware about our health.. But then time is short.. so these is the time we must spend time together with our loves one.. here, pictures of my family and the gatherings .. GONG XI FA CAI everyone..

PROMO SIKIT..

2009-01-13T09:36:00.002+08:00

blogger friends.. spend a little of your time to check out my hubby's blog n my melvin's blog.. And please comment if you have any k..

5 Things U Don't Know About Me..

2009-01-13T08:42:00.006+08:00

hmmm.. reveal myself.. at least u know a little bit about me la...

1st... looks friendly but am not.. i'm shy shy one..

2nd... looks talkative but am not.. actually i'm quiet.. (by talking just to cover the shy shy one la..)

3rd... looks coward but am not.. i'm brave one mahhh.. (malu2 kunun tapi berani juga hehehe..???!!)

4th... looks like the one who cannot cook.. but i'm the best cook for my children (biar pun kadang2 tapau tapi durang bilang sedap juga mama masak, hehhehe sorry kids).. but my hubby always praise my cooking, thx love..

5th... looks stylish (cehh perasan..) but am not.. hubby n melvin always told me what to wear wherever i want to go out, hehehe ...

.. will reveals more soon but not all la k.. the rest you judge me by yourself la.. o ya.. guys I'm tagging u all, can u characterize me just by hopping my blog??

January...

2009-01-08T23:35:00.002+08:00

January.. month of the year

1st.. Analysis report
2nd.. Compiling datas
3rd.. Annual Meeting with staffs
4th.. Annual Report
5th.. Development Plan for this year
6th.. Kids going back to school
7th.. Thinking??? What should I do with my life this year..
8th.. One year older..heheeheh.. (hoping to get lot of gifts from u all.. yayyy!!!)

Balik Sekolah

2009-01-05T08:08:00.004+08:00

Hari ini, ibu bapa sibuk menyediakan anak-anak untuk kembali ke sekolah.. Sempat meninjau-ninjau, akitiviti ibu bapa menghantar anak-anak ke sekolah pagi tadi.. terutama sekali anak-anak yang first time masuk kelas.. Ada ibu bapa nampak risau gelisah, ada juga yang nampak excited.. tapi bila sudah hantar masuk kelas nanti aaahh rasa la tu.. (i've been thru all this..) Risau-risau juga tadi bila nampak anak-anak kecil (kelas tadika) yang menangis, takut pula anak kecil saya ikut menangis (Marina Thn Ke-2 Tadika).. tapi nampaknya sudah kena motivate my 2 heroes pagi tadi.. so dia pun control ayu la hehehe.. my older kids said to her, nangis-nangis tu "baby " ja.. Jadi semuanya berjalan lancar pagi tadi..Thank u to Melvin & Mark.. So, saya menghabiskan masa saya pagi ni dengan blogging la.. Masih cuti hingga 8 Januari ni.. Sebab yang pastinya balik kerja nanti pasti sibuk lagi.. O ya kepada teman-teman "Cikgu" tu, Selamat Kembali Menjalankan Tugas..

What I got for Xmas?

2008-12-29T11:45:00.007+08:00

For me, xmas meant for the kids only.. Gift for them and of course Xmas gathering.. and for sure to remind us the meaning of Christmas.. On Xmas Eve, to my surprise i got my new notebook from my HQ (nasib saya inda cuti masa tu hehehe).. whoaa.. so nice, no need for me to buy a new one.. save by the bells.. Opened the beg, i got HP notebook model 6530b..complete with my little pink mouse.. very nice.. thankss boss.. easier for me to finish my work.. (betul ka ni???? )

My kids as usual got their gift from "Santa" and there were very happy with it.. The most important thing that i 'm really happy with was my two kids created their own blog.. huhuhu.. And for your info, they updated their own blog by themselves.. I'm proud of them.. moreover their english better than me.. (mine tunggang terbalik ni... hehehe) hopefully they will update their blogs more often..

Marina showing off her little gift

Of course Melvin, too

Mark happy with his X'mas gift..

Before went off to my MIL's house

Happy New Year 2009 everyone!! Don't drink and drive k.. Take care and God bless!!

2008-12-24T09:57:00.002+08:00

Your Aura is Green

You're very driven, competitive, and even a bit jealous.

However, you seek out balance in your life - and you usually achieve it!

The purpose of your life: inspiring others to be better

Famous greens include: Tony Robbins, Donald Trump, Martha Stewart

Careers for you to try: Guru, CEO, Talk Show Host

What Color Is Your Aura?

2008-12-23T20:11:00.001+08:00

To all of u out there,
Have a very Merry X'mas and Happy New Year 2009

Best Regards from,

Jacob, Mel, Melvin, Mark & Marina

I love him so much..

2008-12-23T01:00:00.004+08:00

I know for u bloggers out there.. this quite boring for u.. I'll never be bored to be with him. Even though, sometimes we quarrelled for a simple thing ...(biasa lah.. tipu la kalau tiada gaduh kan?) Suddenly came into my mind that i want him to know that i love him so much.. (memang dia tau pun, but i want the world to know that hehehe) He's the love of my life... JACOB HENRY is the only love that i can live with for better or worst .. To U Mr. Jacob, if i have done something unusual to you for the past few years and it hurts u (mana tau ada yang terlepas cakap & tersalah perbuatan kah yang saya tidak sedar) .. For A Bright X'mas & New Year 2009, I want to say here, I am very sorry and I love U so much Mr. Jacob... Merry X'mas & Happy New Year 2009..

Papar Open Dart Tournament

2008-12-23T00:22:00.004+08:00

Last Friday went to Papar to see "live" Dart Tournament for the first time out of Keningau.. Kunun2 bagi support to my beloved hubby lah, cos he also the first time join a big tournament like this.. First time i reach Royal Dart Club here in Papar i was very impress with the invironment.. very friendly invironment lah.. the owner very friendly and of course all around us were very friendly and supporting.. First thing that caught me was these...

BBKK.. all the girls here (i thing the owner relatives lah) wearing BBKK t-shirt.. happy ni sa nampak hehehe.. apalagi ambi chance group photo lah sama durang.. And durang pun sporting abis ni, macam tau ja mau kena masuk blog hehe.. and the next day pun durang pakai t-shirt ni but the "white" color one.. tapi tida terambil foto cos no mood already, too tired... By the way, photos below was taken when i still in a mood hehe... enjoyyyyy

Sekitar Persidangan Tahunan Jabatan 2008 Siri II

2008-12-17T20:44:00.005+08:00

Persidangan Jabatan Tahunan yang telah diadakan pada 10-11hb Dec, 2008 baru=baru ni.. Macam-macam perangai ahli persidangan masa tu.. Ada yang melepaskan geram ada yang men "jack" , ada juga bertindak secara neutral (diam-diam ja ni... macam saya hehehe).. tapi apa-apa pun tu biasalah dalam soal "cari makan" ni.. di mana-mana jabatan pun pasti dengan ragam pegawai masing-masing .. Sepanjang dua hari persidangan tu, banyak yang saya perolehi dan pelajari terutamanya soal data2 ni.. For you out there yang berurusan dengan data ni.. sentiasa update diri dengan data masing-masing yerrr... Dalam soal pendataan ni saya banyak refer sama hubby saya.. dia saya anggap "pakar data" la.. Kalau salah jawab "awasss", tapi at least saya lebih berhati-hati dan lebih teliti lagi dalam penghasilan data ni.. Thanks dear.. O ya disini saya juga ingin mengambil kesempatan untuk mengucapkan Tahniah kepada En. Benit.. (yang duduk sebelah kanan saya di gambar paling atas) yang akan berpindah ke Kudat 01.01.2009 ni.. Dia ni orang paling tahan lasak ni.. Kalau marah dan leteran dari saya dia buat "der" ja ni.. Anyway, Mr. Benit.. sorry lah kalau ada silap dan salah saya selama kita bekerja bersama-sama ni and Best of Luck to you k..

Cuti-cuti Malaysia

2008-12-16T20:08:00.004+08:00

Since i only can get my leave early of this month, i manage to go Labuan for a holiday with my beloved family.. Mau jalan jauh, masa tidak mengizinkan.. Banyak lagi benda perlu dibuat hujung-hujung tahun ni. Mana X'mas Celebration, mana budak2 mau kembali ke sekolah.. so paham-paham ja la kan. Lagipun hubby komited dengan kerja-kerja rutinnya di ladang. So peluang sebeginilah dapat kami spend time together-together ni. So, these photos taken while surfing around @ the island..

Dart-Best Solution For Stress..

2008-12-02T13:03:00.004+08:00

Raya Celebration 2008

2008-12-02T12:39:00.006+08:00

So sorry for the late posting... Busy la.. baru hari ini berpeluang untuk update posting. Biasalah hujung-hujung tahun ni macam-macam kerja perlu diselesaikan.. Mulai hari ini saya bercuti hinggalah 15hb November... Macam-macam rancangan untuk bersama keluarga tercinta di musim-musim cuti ni.. o ya foto-foto yang ada ni seperti yang dijanjikan dalam posting saya yang lalu.. masa hari raya yang lalu.. (teringat-ingat pula rendang sekarang ni, mmmm laparrr..) .. bila tinguk kalendar hanya tinggal 23 hari lagi krismas akan kita raikan.. (Christmas gift... hmmmm..) So, to all of you out there.. Merry X'mas n Happy New Year 2009..

Blurr..

2008-10-14T16:10:00.005+08:00

blurr laa.. betul-betul exhausted.. bukan fizikal tapi mentally exhausted ni.. at the same time, all the datas kena minta today.. lucky me, semua updated (pekerja yang dedikasi kan, hehehe). Mana monthly report kena minta, annual report lagi (padahal belum habis tahun ni.. till todate ja la).. Some visitors coming tomorrow so my boss jadi gabra la (sorry boss... ), my Pengarah came over lagi tadi jadi paham-paham la sibuk dia.. So, time mau update data tadi ni saya jadi blurr... don't know what to do ( pernah jadi macam tu kah?).. You know what i did? Order teh-o panas.. sori Tukang Kupi, kupi inda main ni hari... So i'm going to be ok la soon.. o ya guys more update soon for my raya celebration with pic lagi.. soon k.. soon.. hehe below my messy table.. with my tea.. ada kuih siput lagi.. hehehe..

Knowing me.. knowing you..

2008-10-06T09:48:00.004+08:00

Me as a blogger known as mj.. mjcob.. for you out there who just knew me, me named by my parents MELANIE ... my hubby call me "Cece", my kids call me "Mama".. my friend who knew me called me by the name of Mel.. my siblings call me Mel Cece..

Did the meaning of your name affects yourself?

Meaning of my name..

Pronounced: MEL-ə-nee (English), ME-lah-nee (German)

From the French form of the Latin name Melania, derived from Greek μελαινα (melaina) meaning "black, dark". This was the name of a Roman saint who gave all her wealth to charity in the 5th century. Her grandmother was also a saint with the same name.

The name was common in France during the Middle Ages, and was it introduced from there to England, though it eventually became rare. Interest in it was revived by the character Melanie Wilkes from the novel 'Gone with the Wind' (1936) and the subsequent movie adaptation (1939).

Want to now the meaning of your name, just visit the site.. there's a lot of name you can find here.. for the newly married couple who's going to become a parents.. then you can find your child name here too.. Actually, there's a lot of website for names finding but i chose this one.. coz it's easier..

Back to my question, is it affect yourself..? For me, names didn't affect you at all, it's only a name.. Identification of oneself.. so tidak lah kena panggil "ui-ui" or "woi" (sound cursing, right?) One of my son, we named him MARK.. but he always ask me to change his name to Max.. He complaint that his classmates seldom jeers him " Mak.. mak nasi lemak".. that's why lah.. You know how I persuade him to appreciate his name.. I told him that, most celebrities by that name become popular. I shows him lah kunun on TV (asal ada nama Mark ni) so apalagi kembang ni.. I told him again, you'll be like one of them when you grown up.. (harap-harap lah kan..) Senangkan pujuk anak kecil, biarpun you don't know anything actually.. lol.. But still, till now.. he never complain again...

My 2nd son,

MARK JAVIER JACOB

Tagged By Tompok-Susan...

2008-09-26T16:33:00.007+08:00

Very sorry Tompok, baru reply ko punya tag ni.. Bersedia mangsa seterusnya .. Read on ...

1. At what age do you wish to marry?
Memang 25 above la.. and me got married exactly 25 .. Now 11 yrs already we got married..

2. Where will you go if someone sponsors you a tour ticket?
Switzerland, tapi sapa yang baik hati sangat tu ahhh... Harap Jackpot la..

3. What's your favorite thing to do?
Swimming.. (in my dreams la.. cos i don't know how to swim...ssshhhshh)

4. Do you think money can buy happiness?
Nope. Money only can buy me a car, a house and foods. But money cannot buy u a Love (hehehe jiwang ni..)

5. If you can have 1 dream to come true, what would it be?
Be a Good Wife and A Good mother to my children..

6. Do you believe you can survive without money?
No.. everything monies nowadays.. so macamana mau hidup without money...

7. What are you afraid to lose the most?
Happiness

8. What is your current mood?
Great and excited..

9. If you meet someone that you love, would you confess to him/her?
Yes.. of course..

10. List out 3 good points of the person who tagged you?
Jajal ni..Happening, Cute and of course friendly

11. What are the most important thing you'll do in your life?
To make my family happy..

12. What type of person do you hate the most?
Hipocrytes, Selfish & L.C.L.Y (lin si lin yong.. ngam ka tu tkg kupi?)

13. What is your ambition?
Taking care of my family and love them forever..

14. If you can teleport once, where would you go?
Together-gether with my hubby (dua-dua ni) makan anginla

15. What do you think is the most important thing in your life?
Hubby, kids, family, career, friends

16. Do fix a broken heart or let Time heal the Pain?
Let time heal the pain...

17. If you have a chance, which part of your character would you like to change?
PR not so good..

18. What is your idea of relaxation?
Spa

19. What are your habits?
?????

20. If one day you couldn't do the things that you are used to doing now anymore, how would you feel?
Bored..

KadusMama, tkg kupi, andrik & williejude.. tag 4 u.. jawab jan tak jawab???!!!

blogging.. blogs.. bloggers..

2008-09-23T08:43:00.004+08:00

blogging?? it's not so easy as u thought... especially when your computer shared with everbody hehehe (kedapatan teda computer sendiri ni..hehehe) .. when some ideas appeared unexpectedly you cannot write it right away, terpaksa tunggu turn ni .. so i'm getting a notebook on my own soon.. Actually, pc at my office so damn slow.. so paham2 la, you cannot do anything.. i mean the connection very "the" slow.. so mau curi tulang also cannotla.. At my home pula, suda kena control habis by my kids.. tunggu durang tidur pun, idea pun hilang suda ni :) .. So, kalau mau kena update paham-paham la slow dia k, it takes 2-3 days or even a week or even a month.. But since ada 2-3 bloggers support me at the back, 'specially to my hubby (tapi dia sendiri pun tidak dpat update blog dia ni, very busyman) saya mula bersemangat balik la.. An applause to Leo Fantasia & Tukang Kupi.. thanks guys .. yeeahhhh... I'll be back.. soon..

Cool Machine

2008-09-18T11:25:00.005+08:00

hehehe.. exactly it's birthday today... Happy Birthday SAA2659U..

Useful Information

2008-09-18T11:13:00.002+08:00

An email from a friend.. Thanks Cyn.. Very Useful Info ... i tried it before but only in one glass.. I will try to follow this method of treatment..

Quote:

DRINK WATER ON EMPTY STOMACH

It is popular in Japan today to drink water immediately after waking up every morning. Furthermore, scientific tests have proven its value. We publish below a description of use of water for our readers. For old and serious diseases as well as modern illnesses. The water treatment had been found successful by a Japanese medical society as a hundred percent cure for the following diseases:

Headache

· Body ache

· heart system

· arthritis

· fast heart beat

· epilepsy

· excess

· fatness

· bronchitis

· asthma

· TB

· Meningtitis

· Kidney and Urine diseases

· vomiting gastritis

· diarrhea

· piles

· diabetes

· constipation

· all eye diseases

cancer

· menstrual disorders

· ear nose

· throat diseasesMETHOD OF TREATMENT

1. As you wake up in the morning before brushing teeth, drink four glasses of water each of 160 ml.
2. Brush and clean the mouth but do not eat or drink anything for 45 minutes.
3. After 45 minutes you may eat and drink as normal.
4. After 15 minutes of breakfast, lunch and dinner do not eat or drink anything for two hours.
5. Those who are old or sick and are unable to drink four glasses of water at the beginning may commence by taking little water and gradually increase it to four glasses per day.
6. The above method of treatment will cure diseases of the sick and others can enjoy a healthy life.

The following list gives the number of days of treatment required to cure main diseases:
1. High Blood Pressure 30 days
2. Gastric 10 days
3. Diabetes 30 days
4. Constipation 10 days
5. Cancer 180 days
6. TB 90 days

Arthritis patients should follow the above treatment for only 3 days in the first week to be followed by daily treatment. This treatment method has no side effects, however at the commencement of treatment you may have to urinate a few times.

Further Education

2008-09-17T14:48:00.003+08:00

jeng... jeng.. jeng.. suspen sikit ba... This morning as usual, cerita kedai kopi at Sebrang's Cafe.. while cerita2 ni.. one of my colleague brought up the story about her children going overseas for further study.. you go girl... Bila teringat dulu-dulu, while at school.. i love to study.., berkobar-kobar ni.. Kunun-kunun, mahu jadi orang yang terkenal kelak bila sudah dewasa (memang terkenal sudah sekarang, kuang.. kuang.. kuang.. perasan ni..) .. At the same time.. geng di sekolah panggil kami dengan banyak gelaran ni.. kuat belajar la kunun masa tu.. (#@&%?%%$#@) .. Tapi saya memang suka belajar la.. if i have the chance to go further study i will go.. that the moral of the story actually.. my colleague macam susah hati ni mau hantar anak dia ni but i encourage her.. give her a chance.. ni la peluang terbaik bagi dia... You guys out there, if there is a little chance for your children to go further study.. let them go.. Let them get more knowledges out there and achieve their dreams .. Bukan ja ibubapa happy, anak2 pun happy kerana impian masing-masing tercapai..

Selamat Berpuasa

2008-09-01T20:08:00.002+08:00

Wishing all Muslim friends Happy Fasting .. Selamat Berpuasa, and banyak2 la buat kuih for Raya k..

Marah..

2008-08-05T22:15:00.005+08:00

Perkataan "marah" merujuk kamus DBP Edisi 3 tahun 2000, ia bererti berasa panas hati kerana ditipu (dihina dll), perasaan panas hati, berang, gusar atau murka. Apa yang membuat seseorang itu marah? Saya paling fobia dimarahi... takut dan malu pun ada.. Anda dimarah kerana anda telah berbuat salah kepada si pemarah tadi, telah menyinggung perasaannya sehingga dia menjadi marah .. Ia bukan sahaja berbentuk luahan perasaan dengan bercakap dengan nada yang kuat ertinya marah tetapi dengan riak muka juga anda boleh lihat seseorang itu marah... Tapi bagi saya, sebaik-baiknya perkara yang boleh menimbulkan kemarahan ini perlulah dielakkan.... Dalam sudut lain pula, marah itu bererti sayang.. Adakalanya bila timbul perasaan marah pada anak-anak misalnya.. Kita marah sebab kita tidak mau perkara yang tidak diingini berulang , so kita marahlah.. Tapi marah orang dewasa kepada orang dewasa ni lah yang menakutkan, hehehe, tapi setakat ini saya bersyukurlah sebab belum ada lagi (setahu sayalah, entahlah kalau marah tapuk-tapuk ni) orang yang marah kerana saya.. Apa-apapun janganlah kita "bermarah-marah", kerana marah itu boleh menimbulkan banyak perkara yang tidak diingini.. Sebaiknya jika kita marah, kita cuba kawal perasaan marah itu, cuba selesaikan dengan jalan yang terbaik.. Jadi, ceria-ceria lah selalu..

GIGA our new pet

2008-08-04T21:15:00.002+08:00

very cute & very playful.. Kawan Marina every afternoon.. Entertainer of our house.. Nice pic Vin..

What's attract U when u visits Sebrang Livestock Center

2008-07-28T21:50:00.013+08:00

Ladang yang luas lebih 1000 ekar.. lebih tepat 1260 ekar..

Lembu-lembu Impot dan Kacukan yang dipelihara di kandang atau istilah kami "feedlot"

Rusa-rusa yang berbagai spesis..

3 ekor burung unta yang cute.. :)

and last sekali..

mmmm yummmy.. mesti singgah Sebrang Cafe..
di sini tempat lepak kami.. dan last last lagi... kakitangan Sebrang mesra-mesra belaka...
Mau tau lebih lanjut, come and visit us..

Am I Your Friend?

2008-07-23T11:47:00.005+08:00

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
you have to think before you speak to me!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
my presence ever makes you feel uncomfortable!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
you have to thank me for everything i do for you!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
you have to say sorry for everything that you don't do!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
you have to ask me for favours!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
you think i would not be curious to know your philosophy of life!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
yo go by what i say and do not understand what i don't say!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
you think that listening to your dreams would put me to sleep!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
you think that seeing you in pain, would not bring tear to me!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
you think I do not remember the first time we met!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
you don't see the thousand ways i try to make you happy!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
you don't realise how your smile brightens up my day!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
you would rather keep quiet when you really wanna talk!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
you hesitate to ask me to stay back when you should think we should be together!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF...
you take too much time to tell me what i mean to you!

AM I YOUR FRIEND ????

McKee with His Guitar..

2008-07-22T21:57:00.001+08:00

Wawasan 2020

2008-07-18T19:06:00.002+08:00

Wawasan 2020 or Vision 2020 is a Malaysian ideal introduced by the former Prime minister of Malaysia, Mahathir Bin Mohamad during the tabling of the Sixth Malaysia Plan in 1991. The vision calls for a self-sufficient industrial, Malay-centric developed nation, complete with an economy, in 2020 that will be eightfold stronger than the economy of the early 1990s.

Wawasan 2020 is also the title of an article by William Greider about globalization in Malaysia.

One of the question which i was interviewed recently... hehehe.. jawapan penuhnya di atas ni lah..

source: Wikipedia

Sebrang Livestock Station

2008-07-01T16:00:00.003+08:00

Sebrang Livestock Station is my working place since 1995 till todate.. Since it's selected for one of the SDC's mega project so here i'd like to promo a bit about this place. Situated about 5 km from Keningau town, Sebrang is well known for its milking cows and deers. With 1260 acres, we, 40 of us managed to handle 461 cows and 360 deers. Our place is meant for rearing and breeding milking cows and deers. This place also known to some local university student to do their field works and get some experiences such as pasture management, herd health management, calves management, reproductive management and all about animal husbandry. Less than 5 minute from here you can find Sabah Biotechnology Centre. For more information, you can come over to visit and for uni student you have to write in to our HQ..

Clownfish Anemonefish

2008-06-23T23:46:00.003+08:00

My going to be Pet... hehehe (in my dreams..) Clown fish aka Amphiprion percula aka Nemo. There are 28 known species of anemonefish, most of which live in the shallow waters of the Indian Ocean, the Red Sea, and the western Pacific. They are not found in the Caribbean, Mediterranean or Atlantic Ocean. So, susah sikitla mau pelihara kan.... sini keningau manada laut.. tapi harap kawan-kawan dari KK la hantar air laut.. I'm just wish to have one but not practical la .. maybe some other time bila tua-tua nanti kan...

Just for your info..

2008-06-23T23:33:00.002+08:00

Malaysia Flag and Fast Facts
	Population 26,121,000 Capital Kuala Lumpur; 1,352,000 Area 329,847 square kilometers (127,355 square miles) Language Bahasa Melayu, English, Chinese dialects, other regional dialects and indigenous languages Religion Muslim, Buddhist, Daoist, Hindu, Christian, Sikh, Shamanist	Currency ringgit Life Expectancy 73 GDP per Capita U.S. $8,800 Literacy Percent 89

source: National Geogarphic.com 2004

2008-06-23T22:56:00.001+08:00

Kaamatan Celebration & House Blessing

2008-06-11T20:06:00.007+08:00

With some of my newly met friends, we were having some nice dishes and siopon at my friend's new house.. Congrats to Jo's Family for their lovely house... The party was more on family gathering, as we're invited.. my koko and me felt so honoured.. thanks Jo. After having some drinks and "araimaiti", this is how we look.. To Juvie, Beth, Tompok, Clare, Jo & all the ladies.. U go Girls..!!!

Marina's 5th Birthday

2008-06-11T19:58:00.002+08:00

To all my dearest friend, sorry for the late posting.. Araimaiti season (Paham2la...) Recently, we celebrated Marina's 5th birthday .. It's on the 28th May, 2008.. Very simple one.. just a lovely little cake and a small family gathering.. To my dear Marina, we all love you very much.. Happy Birthday my dear..

The Power Of Love

2008-05-20T16:22:00.006+08:00

hmmm... thinking of something made someone really in love... i read an email recently sent by a friend that there is 10 secrets of Love.. By reading at it, i found that there is so much possibilitites that someone will knock you out when seeing us madly in love.. But by the power of all these secrets of love you will avoid it from betray to your partner..

When you create everything with loving thoughts.. at the same time you'll create loving experience and loving relationships. Respect your partner as you respect yourself then you will get it back.. I might be hypocrite, but then I have learnt so much from my back experience.. So, i find that's interesting to share with you all..

The 3rd secret of love is give your honest loving heart to your partner. Be happy, loving and kind to your partner cause I always got it from my Koko.. He taught me to be love, to be kind and honest to him too.. And I hope that this will be last longer..

Be friended to your partner... Because your true friend is only your partner.. You can talk everything to him from A to Z.. Can chitchat with for a longer hours.. He knew everything about you.. The Best and The Worst.. and you know everything about him..

A tender touch is another secret of love.. A loving touch create bonding from a partner or from a mother to a child or a father to a child..

Space.. Sometimes a space needed for you and your partner too..

Forgive and forget are very useful tools for a couple too.. Never brought bad memories between both of you..

Most of all, Communication is the most important thing for a couple.. You must learn how to communicate honestly and openly cause i still do.. Doesn't mean i don't know how to communicate but you mustn't talk that can hurt anyone feelings..

Commitment is the true test of love... Commitment make your love becomes more stronger and unbreakable..

Passion and trust are essential to a relationship.. Trust to your partner means you are commiting your love.. Even you knew that there is an evil looking for you to knock you out, you have to believe.. That with your Love and his Love, your honesty, your trust, your loyalty, your sacrifice but most of all appreciate all about your partner make anyone loves' wondrous of all.. So love your partner as long as we live.. And to all the reader out there.. your love of reading at my blog made me keep on blogging.. So be love and feels love..

Gastrik....!!!

2008-05-09T10:30:00.003+08:00

hi there.. lama tidak update kan? so sorry la, agak busy kebelakangan ni... So pa cerita u all ??.. Beberapa hari kebelakangan ini, saya busy dengan reports.. Mana HQ minta, mana lagi boss minta.. Lain-lain kerja lagi.. semua berkaitan dengan "numbers" ni.. teringat pula teman lama saya.. Suzy, saya anggap dia ni Sifu of Reports la.. (zee, ni bukan jack 3 tan ahh.. :) cool ja kalau berdepan dengan reports ni.. sebab memang kerja dia berdepan dengan numbers setiap hari... pendekkan cerita, Suzy ni memang cool la.. ehh jadi cerita lain la pula saya ni?

Sambung pasal kerja ni, sampaikan masa makan pun tidak teratur.. makan tidak teratur ni la punca saya dapat gastrik ni... Penyakit gastrik ni banyak jenis, dari makanan, dari stress, dari tidur tidak cukup la.. macam-macam la.. So petang kelmarin, sakit kepala menjadi-jadi mana migrain mana lagi gastrik.. boleh tahan la sakit dia, sehinggakan sekarang masih terasa kesan sakit kelmarin ni.. Entahla macam-macam ubat sudah saya cuba ni, tapi masih juga penyakit ni pandai timbul..My Koko pun tidak tau mahu buat apa lagi.. paling-paling dia suruh jumpa Doktor ja.. tapi malasla.. Ko, kau ja jadi Doktor saya k, hehehe.. So biarkan ja la.. paling-paling ubatnya paracetamol dan tidurrrr ja... (kalau saya sakit malas sudah mau bagitau Koko saya sebab hampir sakit saya sama ja setiap kali ni, baik buat-buat lupa ja ni..)..

Pasal gastrik ni juga, banyak kawan bagi nasihat la.. jangan makan ini jangan makan itu.. macam-macam la.. Tapi saya cuma terima yang bahawa untuk mengelakkan dari kena jangkitan gastrik ni (nasihat kepada yang belum kena gastrik la, palis-palis..) masa makan kita perlu di atur, ikut masa yang teratur la.. makan tidak semestinya banyak tapi mesti teratur.. Tidur yang cukup, dan banyak minum air la.. itu ja petua dia.. Kalau ada petua-petua yang lain, bagi komen la k..

ooo baru teringat, bisuk Stacy akan perform untuk Minggu Ke-8 Konsert AF kan so apa lagi AFUNDI la k.. (hehe sempat lagi ba kempen ni..) and kepada semua ibu-ibu dan bakal ibu, saya mengambil kesempatan ini untuk mengucapkan "HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY"...

Happy Birthday To My Koko

2008-04-21T00:15:00.002+08:00

today is my koko's birthday, i hope he'll get more love and happiness from all of us Melvin, Mark, Marina and me...Love you my dear with all our heart.. Happy Birthday..

Cutiii...

2008-04-17T07:08:00.003+08:00

today i take my one day off... so, i'll take this chance to settle everything that i haven't done since last week.. at the same time i want to spend my off day with my koko alone hehehe.. just a break for one day la.. Actually my sister in law just arrive from Labuan yesterday so i just want to make a family day today.. so, more update soon k..

Server Down

2008-04-15T21:42:00.002+08:00

uiiiyoo.. bikin marah ni, kira mau update tapi server kurang baik.. Baru hari ni dapat update... tapi masalahnya sekarang saya kekurangan idea pula, mungkin pasal nampak banyak "figure" di pejabat 2 hari ini.. 2 hari ni saya bermain dengan data so kepala banyak penuh untuk kompilasi data ni.. Analisa summary nya esok mungkin boleh selesai.. so jumpa dengan you all soon k... Very soon.. hehehe..

To Say Sorry

2008-04-13T19:53:00.002+08:00

Pada setengah-setengah orang untuk meminta maaf adalah terlalu sukar.. mungkin kerana keegoan masing-masing.. Apatah lagi kalau kesalahan yang kita buat itu, terlalu besar dan mungkin sukar dimaafkan.. Sorry emotional sikit pula hari minggu ni, mungkin seharian bersama keluarga kan..! Bagi saya, untuk meminta maaf adalah perlu selagi masa mengizinkan.. selagi kita perlu meminta maaf kita minta ampun kepada orang yang kita buat salah tu.. dan harap tidak mengulangi kesalahan yang dibuat.. Bukan lepas minta maaf, buat lagi.. :).. Apatah lagi jika kita bersalah kepada orang-orang yang kita sayangi.. pasti kita sendiri akan merasakannya betapa sakitnya hati itu.. dan kita sendiri akan merasa tidak senang dengan keadaan dan situasi sedemikian kan? Jadi, bagi saya biarlah kita berulangkali meminta maaf sekarang, sekurang-kurangnya dia tahu yang kita sudah insaf dan sedar dengan kesalahan kita..sebab masa adalah singkat.. sekurang-kurangnya sebagai pesalah masing-masing akan rasa lega kerana sudah melafazkannya.. (biarpun tidak dimaafkan! hehe..tapi kita akan rasa tenang kalau masa kita sudah sampai kan!!) So don't forget to say sorry to someone you love immediately, cos time is short.. Untuk itu, saya akan latih budak-budak saya untuk meminta maaf, biarpun perkara kecil.. sebab bagi saya ia amat perlu untuk hubungan kekeluargaan juga.. Betul kah tidak pendapat saya ni tapi saya harap boleh diterima lah kan?? Selamat berhari minggu...

Si Kura-kura

2008-04-13T19:33:00.004+08:00

Dua tahun yang lepas, Melvin menyambut hari jadinya yang ke-8 dan dia mendapat hadiah seekor kura-kura (yang diimpi-impikan selama ni.. :)) bila abang dapat hadiah, yang pasti dua adiknya pun mesti dapat hadiah juga.. And of cos hadiahnya mesti sama, kalau tidak ada mesti riuh nanti.. Seperti biasa, sudah dapat hadiah itu.. 1-2 hari mestilah dibelai manja.. tapi lama kelamaan.. umpama "manis dapat sepah dibuang" hehehe.. dua ekor kura-kura kepunyaan adiknya mati .. tinggal lah seekor kepunyaan abangnya... Baru-baru ni ntah apa angin si Melvin melepaskan si kura-kura itu.. kunun-kunun mau kasi rasa tu rumput di luar so alasan dia saya terima lah.. tup tup petang tu, kura-kura tu berjaya membebaskan diri daripada kurungannya.. pa tidaknya, kurungan diletakkannya di luar tanpa tutup.. sebab selalunya Melvin akan simpan pet dia tu di dalam bilik dia.. tapi petang tu dia lupa bawa masuk.. So apa lagi, "i'm free" la tu kura-kura rasa.. hehehe.. Ni pic saya ambil hari terakhir kura-kura tu bersama kami.. Good bye si Kura-kura...

Nyanyian si kecil

2008-04-11T13:05:00.005+08:00

First time Marina nyanyi depan saya ni, selalunya dia malu-malu biarpun saya mama dia .. So tanpa buang masa i grab my phone and take this video.. Harap-harap you all enjoy dengar nyanyian dia ni ok..

Belinin Sook

2008-04-10T18:48:00.004+08:00

Perjalanan hari ini memenatkan lah.. tapi apa yang bestnya.. dapat makan durian.. mau tengok foto-foto saya ambil sepanjang perjalanan kami.. sila lah..

my boss tengah adjust driving dia ni.. hehe, jalan licin..

disambut oleh anak-anak kecil.. excited berabis nampak kami ni... Ini ladang durian Mr. Yap..

kira mau minta bagi bibit durian dia.. tapi malu-malu ni...

mula nikmati buah durian.. fuiyooo... best ooo.. sampai lupa pula ambil foto close up isi durian yang tebal itu.. hehehe...

and to Cindy, thanx for your comment.. Excited ni dapat first comment.. hehehe.. tapi Cyn.. best blogging ni.. cuba-cubalah.. c u soon..

Gara-gara Sufiah Yusof..

2008-04-10T10:53:00.006+08:00

Gara-gara si genius Sufiah Yusof, sebagai ibu saya jadi gerun dan takut pula ... ya lah, kan saya masih ada 3 anak kecil.. (palis-palis..!) Kadang-kadang takut pula memikirkan apa akan terjadi kepada anak-anak kita bila dewasa nanti kan? Kepada yang belum terbaca mengenai Sufiah Yusof, sila googling ke Sufiah Yusof... banyak cerita pasal amoi ni.. tapi unsensored sikit lah.. Dia pernah diiktiraf sebagai budak genius pada umur 13 tahun sudah masuk Oxford University, tapi kini menjadi "Pelacur Genius" pula... boleh dengar pengakuan dia secara "live" lagi.. (sila googling ya..).. or else cuba masuk address ini, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sufiah_Yusof#column-one

Gara-gara si Sufiah ini juga, saya tertarik dengan satu artikel yang telah di email kepada saya bertajuk "Kaedah Motivasi Anak"... apa yang saya tertarik dengan artikel ini, adalah cara berkomunikasi dengan anak, dimana dalam sebuah keluarga dinyatakan dalam artikel tersebut kita perlu wujudkan keluarga yang ceria, bahagia dan harmoni. Ibubapa juga perlu sedar bahawa setiap anak itu memerlukan daya hidup, kasih sayang, kuasa memilih, keseronokan dan kebebasan.

Dimana, baru saya sedar bahawa selama ini saya terlalu mengongkong anak-anak kecil saya ... tidak terlalu mengongkong tetapi terlalu mengawal ketat perbuatan mereka .. (Ini juga selalu diingatkan oleh Koko saya.. saya terlalu tegas dengan anak-anak) .. Cuma kadang-kadang saya amat terasa bila anak-anak terlalu mendesak, saya jadi rimas ... (tapi bila difikirkan semula, masa-masa saya amat kurang dengan anak-anak ni dan itulah diorang suka buat hal ni bukanlah hal yang teruk-teruk tapi biasalah budak-budak yang mau minta perhatian), tapi apa-apapun segala ini akan memberi pengajaran berguna kepada saya.. Segala nasihat Koko dan kaedah-kaedah yang di email akan cuba dipraktikkan... Saya akan cuba... kalau ada kemahuan, mesti boleh kan..?

Perkembangan Semasa

2008-04-10T09:36:00.003+08:00

Funny juga ni, gara-gara kebaru-baruan blogging ni.. perkembangan semasa pun tidak tau sudah.. hehehe.. anyway, pagi ni jumpa kawan lama satu pejabat dulu, cerita punya cerita.. baru saya tau keretapi yang satu-satunya ada di Sabah ni "accident", 3 orang yang terbunuh.. (nanti saya p cari news dulu .. dan baca apa story sebenar!)..

Hari ni mood saya baik sekali.. mungkin pasal banyak ketawa dengan "darters" semalam.. (saya ni gila main dart juga ni, cuma belum pas-pas lagilah!).. Topik kami semalam, cara-cara darters melontar dart, jadi macam-macam perangai lah diorang ajuk semula.. ketawa sampai mau pecah perut la.. Cerita punya cerita sambil praktis main dart lah.. tidak disedari jam sudah pun 1.30 pagi, Koko (gelaran to my hubby) saya pun dengan selamba bawa pulang .. member-member lain pun terpinga-pinga ni (abis tengah syok-syok cerita ni) .. Hehehe sorry guys, my hubby concerned pasal hari ni saya kena pi ofis lagi.. Pasti kamu paham kan.. Lagipun Koko saya kena bergegas ke Kota Kinabalu ada urusan.. Kesian dia.. kalau masa cuti ni mesti saya berkepit sama dia ke KK ni.. Mana mau ketinggalan ni, abis biasalah orang kampung jarang-jarang masuk bandar besar ni hehehe... teringin juga.. okla nanti saya update lagi k, ni pakai pc ofis ni (curi tulang lah!)..

Blogging

2008-04-08T10:24:00.003+08:00

actually saya kurang kemahiran dalam hal-hal penulisan ni.. tapi mungkin adanya blog dari hati ke hati ini sekurang-kurangnya dapat perbaiki sedikit sebanyak penulisan saya .. mungkin atas sikap saya yang agak pemalu sikit ni menyebabkan saya kurang bergaul dan ini mempengaruhi pengolahan bahasa yang digunakan.. tidak teratur dan tunggang langgang sedikit.. Ada masa-masanya, pertuturan saya pun tidak dijaga dengan baik menyebabkan orang akan terhiris jika tidak memahami saya yang sebenarnya .. (dan ini selalu ditegur oleh hubby saya :-), i thank him for this!), apa-apapun hopefully dengan blogging ini saya boleh perbaiki penulisan saya.. These is for my son, too (mahu ajar diorang Karangan Bahasa Malaysia ni...)...

The Love of my Life

2008-04-07T23:47:00.005+08:00

without him i can't do anything... he's my inspiration of all.. dia ni kelakar orangnya.. friendly and very strong.. dia ni alert dalam segala hal mengenai saya.. he's everything for me.. biarpun masa susah dan senang.... he's my teacher, my motivator, my sifu and most of all he's my beloved hubby.. oleh kerana saya ni agak kasar sedikit, rebellious.. hehehe.. diala orang yang paling banyak bersabar dengan saya ni... sehinggakan kadang-kadang saya lalai dan lupa diri yang boleh menyebabkan dia sakit hati.. dia jugalah "alarm clock" saya.. kalau dia tiada di depan saya.. seems that "I'm flying without wings" lah.. Dear, if you are reading this.. saya bukan jack 3 tan ahhh.. tapi apa yang saya rasa, begitulah sekarang... I love you so much ...

Happy 10th Birthday Melvin Juan Jacob

2008-04-07T23:35:00.005+08:00

Happy10th birthday to you my dear son Melvin.. we only celebrate it at night.. everybody seems so busy with the routine life.. schools, works, etc.. but then everyone were so happy that time.. walaupun si kecil manis tu kena tummy upset masa tu.. sian dia.. By the way, happy birthday once again my dear son from mama with love.. sudah besar ni, kena belajar jadi matang k dear.. Hormati orang yang lebih tua dan hargai apa yang ada di persekitaran kita.. and most of all jangan membazir... Love you so much ..